Simon Sinek – Love. It’s Not About Intensity, It’s About Consistency.

TRANSKRIP
She didn’t fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday
and bought her flowers on Valentine’s Day.
She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning
you said, “good morning” to her before you checked your phone.
She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink,
you got her one without even asking.
She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work
and she came home and she had a terrible day at work,
you didn’t say “yeah, yeah, yeah but let me tell you about my day.”
You sat and listened to her awful day
and you didn’t say a thing about your amazing day.
This is why she fell in love with you.
I can’t tell you exactly what day and it was no particular thing you did.
It was the accumulation of all of those little things,
that she woke up one days and as if she pressed a button
she goes, “I love him.”
And the same with the relationship,
it’s not about the events.
It’s not about intensity,
it’s about consistency.

TERJEMAHAN
She didn’t fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday
Dia tidak jatuh cinta padamu karena kamu ingat hari ulang tahunnya

and bought her flowers on Valentine’s Day.
dan membeli bunga untuknya di Hari Valentine.

She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning
Dia jatuh cinta padamu karena ketika kamu bangun pagi

you said, “good morning” to her before you checked your phone.
kamu menyapanya “selamat pagi” sebelum kamu mengecek ponselmu.

She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink,
Dia jatuh cinta padamu karena ketika kamu menuju ke kulkas untuk mengambil minum,

you got her one without even asking.
kamu mengambilkannya minum tanpa diminta.

She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work
Dia jatuh cinta padamu karena ketika harimu di kantor luar biasa

and she came home and she had a terrible day at work,
dan dia pulang ke rumah dan mengalami hari yang buruk di kantornya,

you didn’t say “yeah, yeah, yeah but let me tell you about my day.”
kamu tidak berkata ,”ya, ya, ya tapi biarkan aku bercerita tentang hariku.”

You sat and listened to her awful day
Kamu duduk dan mendengarkan harinya yang buruk

and you didn’t say a thing about your amazing day.
dan kamu tidak berkata sepatah kata apapun tentang harimu yang luar biasa.

This is why she fell in love with you.
Inilah mengapa dia jatuh cinta padamu.

I can’t tell you exactly what day and it was no particular thing you did.
Aku tidak bisa memberitahumu secara persis hari apa dan itu bukan sesuatu hal khusus yang kamu lakukan.

It was the accumulation of all of those little things,
Akumulasi hal-hal kecil itulah

that she woke up one days and as if she pressed a button
yang membuatnya terbangun satu hari dan seakan-akan dia menekan satu tombol

she goes, “I love him.”
dan berkata, “Aku mencintainya.”

And the same with the relationship,
Dan sama halnya dengan hubungan,

it’s not about the events.
cinta bukanlah masalah peristiwa,

It’s not about intensity,
cinta bukan pula tentang intensitas,

it’s about consistency.
cinta itu tentang konsistensi.